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Why Children Need to Grow Up Around Nature

My sister and I were very lucky to have grandparents who lived in a small cottage on a countryside estate. As children, we would spend occasional weekends there without our parents. We would explore the fields, build bridges and splash in the brook or go on woodland adventures. I’m sure my grandma never let us out of her sight but she gave us enough autonomy to discover how we can use the great outdoors as our playground.

I recently went to visit them with my two boys. As soon as I stepped out of the car, into the soft and gentle countryside, I could feel my mind wander back to those days when life was quieter. Perhaps it was nostalgia or a pang of yearning to return to those care-free days once more.

Jack followed my granddad around the garden, in search of the friendly robin. He ran around on the grass and soaked up the freedom and space, just as my sister and I did many years ago.

He was tentative at first, wondering how far he would be allowed to go before me shouting ‘be careful’ as if he wasn’t sure how he should be with so much space and freedom.  Yet as he eased into and quickly adjusted to this new environment, captured by what the countryside has to offer.

We live on the outskirts of a city in a fairly urbanised environment. My boys have to date grown up with the sound a bus going by every 5 minutes, quad bikes racing up and down the road, horns beeping and loud music blaring late into the night from nearby parties. Our local walks are less a stomp through the fields and more a mission to dodge-the-dog-mess.

Although the boys have never known anything different, I do. I’ve lived in this environment for over 10 years and the noise of semi-urban life still grates on my soul.

There are times when I feel suffocated by the urban sprawl. I have urges to be near green grass, fields, or see animals without having to pay to visit a farm.

Some people put it down to me not being a ‘city person’, and perhaps I’m not. But research shows our need to be close to nature is something deeper than preference.

In the 1980’s a Harvard University biologist, Edward Wilson proposed the theory called biophilia. This hypothesises that humans have a need to be connected to nature. It claims that we “have a love for the natural world, universally felt by all, and resulting at least in part from our genetic make-up and evolutionary history.”

Nature as a Health Buffer

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When I visit my parents in their semi-rural home, I walk for miles around the village. I take every opportunity to replenish my lungs with fresh air.  Furthermore, my anxiety eases and my head clears.

Nature has long been an essential health buffer which will be lost as we neglect our connection with the great outdoors.

Mardie Townsend, PhD, an honorary professor at the School of Health and Social Development at Deakin University in Australia thinks that in the last 250 years, we have struggled to adapt to the division from nature. She believes that mental health professionals should be prescribing time in nature as often as possible.

“There is mounting evidence that contact with nature has significant positive impacts on mental health,” said Townsend.

“It is associated with reduced levels of stress – which also has huge ramifications for physical health, reduced levels of depression and anxiety, increased resilience, increased engagement with learning for children and adolescents otherwise disengaged from the education system,” she told Psychiatry Advisor.

However, for nature to be prescribed, we need better access to green spaces.

“For this to happen, high-quality parks, gardens and nature reserves need to be nearby, served by good public transport, affordable, safe, attractive, with good signage and interpretive information, well managed and maintained, and accessible to people with different physical needs.”

“If we are to prevent an upsurge in mental health issues, especially among children, we need to re-engage humans with nature as a matter of urgency.”

Playing Outside Improves Child’s Happiness and Confidence

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It was shocking to read that part of a 12-month government study found more than one in nine children in England have not set foot in a park, forest, beach or any other natural environment for at least 12 months.

Another report discovered that the average child spends less time outdoors than adult prisoners. Figures showed that 74 percent of children spent less than an hour outside, while almost a third of children play outdoors for 30 minutes or less a day. One in five children doesn’t play outside at all.

While these figures are shocking, I am not completely surprised.  If you live on a busy road, don’t have a garden, live far from a park then getting that crucial outdoor time is difficult. For us, to go somewhere less built up usually means a trip out in the car.

I admit that it can sometimes feel like an effort with two young kids so it’s something we put off. It is another reason why I miss being somewhere a bit more rural; I would like to go out for a walk from our front door and not be worried about my kids running out in front of cars on the busy road.

Living on a busy street, being in a packed classroom or constant screen time can increase levels of cortisol – the stress hormone – in the body.  Being outside can help get rid of this stress and regular access to fresh air is also linked to better sleep patterns.

A study by the University of Essex found just five minutes “green exercise” can produce fast improvements in mental health, wellbeing and self-esteem – especially in the young.

Free play outdoors gives children the opportunity to enhance problem-solving skills and gross motor skills. Emotionally it reduces anger and increases happiness. Whether it’s learning how to climb a tree or for my sister and me, how to build a bridge over a brook; being outside encourages you to test and trust your instincts.

Child psychologist Professor Tanya Byron said “The less children play outdoors, the less they learn to cope with risks and challenges they will go to face as adults.

“Nothing can replace what children gain from the freedom and independence of thought they have when they are trying things out in the open.”

Furthermore, children can soak up a natural source of vitamin D from the sunlight, which enhances moods by aiding the release of serotonin into the brain.

Nature Deficit Disorder

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Nature Deficit Disorder was a phrase coined by Richard Louv in his book, Last Child in the Woods. He argues that human beings, especially children, are spending less time outdoors which makes us feel more alienated from nature and more vulnerable to negative moods.

“Nature-deficit disorder describes the human costs of alienation from nature, among them: diminished use of the senses, attention difficulties and higher rates of physical and emotional illness. This disorder can be detected in individuals, families and communities.”

He warned that “nature is often overlooked as a healing balm for the emotional hardships in a child’s life.”

Also noting that “spare time in the garden, either digging out, setting out, or weeding, there is no better way to preserve your health.”

“The physical exercise and emotional stretching that children enjoy in unorganized play is more varied and less time-bound than is found in organized sports. Playtime—especially unstructured, imaginative, exploratory play—is increasingly recognized as an essential component of wholesome child development.”

How to Reconnect With the Great Outdoors

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Being outdoors creates a sense of wonder and feeds your child’s senses and enriches the human experience. Whether it’s the smell of freshly cut grass, searching for insects or digging holes with sticks – there is no better substitute for being outside for creating long-lasting memories.

Research shows that simply looking at nature through a window has a positive effect on the viewer. For example, patients in hospitals who have a view of groves of trees have a faster recovery time and less pain medication than those facing an exterior wall.

Even in an office environment, a study has shown that employees who can see trees, bushes or lawns experience less frustration and were happier in their job than those without.

And these results were duplicated in children. A study found that the more nature surrounding a child’s home and could be viewed from their window, the better the child’s mental well-being and ability to deal with stress.

“Our data also suggest little ceiling effect with respect to the benefits of exposure to the nature environment,” said researchers

“Even in a rural setting with a relative abundance of green landscape, more appears to be better when it comes to bolstering children’s resilience against stress or adversity.”

While we all may not be able to afford to move somewhere with a view of rolling hills, there are a few things we can do to enhance our natural environment. Add colourful potted plants or fruit trees if you have a small yard, add window plants or bring nature indoors with plants.

To connect with nature, Louv believes it’s less the grand gesture and more the smaller daily interactions, even if it’s exploring your own garden.

“Expeditions to the mountains or national parks often pale, in a child’s eyes, in comparison with the mysteries of the ravine at the end of the cul de sac.”

Let your children get dirty and give them space to play independently to help increase their sense of wonder.

Go outside to a park or go on an urban trail, explore animal tracks or if safe to do so, take a night time walk when nature will be that bit more mysterious or magical.

While we may never manage to live in an idyllic setting the middle of the countryside, with cows chewing on the grass near the gate, the sound of birds chirping in the air, there are ways to build pockets of nature where we are. The scenery doesn’t have to be picture perfect, all I want for my children is the opportunity to toddle along near trees and explore.

Here are a few ways I’m going to help nurture their love for nature

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– Do some gardening

– Keep a nature journal

– Take pictures

– Allow them to get dirty

– Explore little hidden places

– Go for a walk and make the child the navigator

– Enjoy the rainy weather

– Go on a bear hunt

– Overturn rocks and look for minibeasts

– Cook outside

– Start a small vegetable garden

– Dig in the mud

– Go camping

– Sleep outside

– Have picnics

– Take indoor activities outside – such as painting, playing instruments, writing or drawing

– Look at the clouds

– Look at the stars

– Build an outdoor den

– Make a daisy chain

– Play pooh sticks

– Skim stones

– Pick strawberries and blackberries

– Climb a big hill

How do you help your children reconnect with nature?

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  • magicalmamablog

    I couldn’t agree more! Kids are so intertwined with air conditioning and electronics. I want to do some electricity free days where the kids can get some air and sunshine and actually learn how to talk to people and use their imaginations!

  • Veronica Tan (Schwarting)

    I totally agree with everything you said. I also grew up in nature at my country house. Definitely, a much healthier life comparing with our kids today with all the technology – computers, PSP, Gameboy… and all this keep them away from the real beauty of nature. They don’t know how to interact with other people anymore. Anyways I love to be outside as much as I can.

  • themoneypanel

    Lovely article. I have two boys and we are forever outside. Still not slept outside yet but that’s more my fault than their desire too!

  • Katy - Hot Pink Wellingtons

    I believe really passionately in this and my boys and I spend lots of time outdoors. I know how important it is for my own mental health, and I think it’s even more important for them. Particularly for my energetic 3 year old, who needs an outlet for all his excitement! I love seeing how enthusiastic children are about nature too, there’s so much to discover and so much joy to be found in learning about it all. Thanks for joining us at #SharingtheBlogLove

  • Sophie

    Those figures are so shocking aren’t they? I work in a city school and I’m always amazed that when we talk with the children about seasons or nature, some haven’t a clue. One asked me why some trees looked different in pictures; he didn’t realise that there were different species of tree at age 7. He just had no experience of trees! Have you read about Forest Bathing in Japan….I think we need to prescribe time in forests for everyone. Lovely, lovely post, #LGRTStumble

  • Liberty on the Lighter Side - (LoLS)

    That’s a really good list of suggestions. It certainly would be extremely difficult getting your kids out into green spaces when you are stuck in an apartment in the city and working a full time job! Those stats certainly are shocking, I also read something about kids needing an hour outside everyday which is a bit hard in the winter and I don’t even want to be outside myself! They do always seem happier afterwards though. #LGRTStumble

  • Emma T

    Based on this, N’s going to be well away. Living on a farm, he’s outside most of the time he’s not at school during the summer months, and even goes out to help out in the winter too. Me, I miss being able to walk to buy milk etc, but it is wonderful just watching out of the window and having the space. #sharingthebloglove

    • EmmaMC84

      Same here, been hard with the snow and ice but as soon as we were able, we try and get out! So important for children as it gives them freedom too!

  • louise1742

    I love this article. All three of my children love being outside. Park, woods garden. We love getting outside and the kids are so much better for it. My youngest goes to forest school and it is the greatest thing ever. The boys go to the holiday club in the summer to climb trees, make mud pies and toast marshmallows. It’s how things should be #sharingthebloglove

    • EmmaMC84

      I’ve heard of forest school and been really keen to get the boys into one but can’t seem to find them where I am. My nephew has a forest school at his school and they’ve made it part of their day. It’s awesome!

  • Topsy Turvy Tribe

    I hate some of the scary stats in this post. Getting our children back to nature is the main reason we decided to move to rural Portugal. Getting outside and living closer to nature is amazing. Thank you for sharing your well written and researched post #SharingtheBlogLove

    • EmmaMC84

      Thank you so much for your kind comments! That must be amazing living in Portugal! Being around nature makes a huge difference. I’m keen to move to the countryside – I’m hoping one day we can make it happen.

  • Annette, 3 Little Buttons

    I absolutely LOVE this post and completely agree that there is definitely something there when it comes to connecting with nature and our own general happiness. Whenever I start to feel the city is closing in a bit on us, we venture out to our happy place by the coast. Wind through our hair, the sound of the waves and birds, even the little washed up shells help us to re set and feel good. Thanks so much for joining us for the #Dreamteam xx

  • Briony

    I love this. We live in a lovely little village surrounded by fields and a whole day spent in the house is a rare thing. As a parent I love being able to let him run off and be far away and know he’s safe, the fields give me this. As a kid what could be better than exploring and finding a new bridge or stile to climb, at the moment he’s on snake watch, determined to find one this summer! #blogstravaganza

  • Jo - Cup of Toast

    I love this post and totally agree! We moved to the edge of the countryside a couple of years ago and it’s made such a difference. Then last year we got involved with #30DaysWild and we’ve kept that up through the year which has really encouraged us to make the most of the wonderful world around us, from woodland walks (a firm favourite with our boys!) to bug hunts. It all makes a big change to sitting inside or concentrating on school work every waking moment. Thank you so much for linking up to #Blogstravaganza 🙂

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